Pour the 1/2 cup vegetable oil into a heavy bottom saucepan and set to medium-low heat.
Whisk in the 1/2 cup all-purpose flour. Keep stirring the flour-oil mixture with a whisk at a gentle simmer until you reach your desired brown color.Tip: The roux will begin to cook and change color as the oil warms up. The darker the roux, the deeper the nutty flavor. 25 minutes is not an unreasonable time to reach the desired color. Try not to burn the roux or else you will have to start over.
When the roux is ready, remove the pan from the stove and slowly add the water a little at a time. When completed this will make about 3 cups of gravy.
Once the roux sauce is done, season to taste with Slap Yo’ Daddy "Love Me Tender" All Purpose Rub and set aside to keep warm.
White Cheese Grits
Melt half the butter (4 tablespoons) in a saucepan over medium heat. Add the milk and water.
Slowly stir in the grits with a whisk and cook.
Once the grits are halfway done, stir in the remaining butter (4 tablespoons). Continue to cook, stirring, until the grits are done to your liking.
Stir in the cheese then season to taste with salt and pepper. Set aside to keep warm.
Grilled Shrimp
Toss the shrimp with some oil to coat then add the chopped garlic and sprinkle Slap Yo’ Daddy "Love Me Tender" All Purpose Rub onto the shrimp. Toss to coat then let marinate for a few minutes.
Grill the shrimp on direct heat until they are pink and barely done. Tip: If your shrimp are small they could fall through your grill grates To avoid this skewer them before grilling. You can also sauté the shrimp in a pan on the stove.
As the shrimp come off the grill, place them in a bowl. Add 1 tablespoon butter and green onions then toss. Let the residual heat melt the butter and wilt the green onions. Squeeze the lemon juice over the shrimp.
Season to taste with more Slap Yo’ Daddy "Love Me Tender" All Purpose Rub.
To Serve
In a serving bowl, ladle in a sixth of the gravy, then a sixth of the grits to create a 'puddle' in the middle.
Top with the lemony shrimp then garnish with the fresh green onions and bacon.